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when your baby brother turns 30

baby brother

baby brother
(those are blueberries)

baby brother
(Dan and Beatrix May 2010)

My baby brother turns 30 today.

I turn 35 in December.

But, I remember when we were kids.  I remember the day that we walked to the Cravens house with our dog, Sugar, and decided that rather than take the trail to Point Park, that we would save time and scramble straight up the side of the mountain.  Climbing and sliding uphill through a carpet of dead leaves, I watched with a shudder as a snake zoomed downhill right next to me.  We reached the top and walked across the ridge and then up the stairs to the park.  As we stood there on that huge rock atop a mountain, looking out at the view, Sugar hopped up on a rock wall and must have gotten confused because she jumped off it.  I grabbed her hind legs and pulled her back in what I remember as being mid air.  I was terrified, relieved, and possibly a bit proud of my reflex time.  We loved that dog.  Many years later, I stroked her fur while telling her she was a good girl as the vet put her to sleep.

We climbed back down to a trail that circled around the top of that section of the mountain.  Our plan was to hike around to the Incline tracks and then climb back down the mountain on them.  Our house was near the gift shop that marked the Incline’s halfway point and we planned to hop off the tracks there.  As we made our way around the mountain, we spotted every kid’s wildest dream at that age (we must have been something like 6 and 11 years old at the time.  I am totally guessing.)  Sitting all alone in the middle of the deserted and largely unused trail was a little black puppy.  We’d hit the jackpot.  I picked her up and we made our way down the Incline tracks carrying our precious cargo while making plans for how we would keep her a secret from our parents so that we could keep her.  We assumed that if we asked, the answer would be no.  I don’t remember much about the rest of the hike home, except that we passed another (very big in my memory) snake on our way.  Once we reached our house we snuck “Blackie” into an unused basement room.  Our plan was that she could live in that room and we would sneak food and water to her.  I don’t recall how long she was there before my dad discovered her.  Less than a day I am guessing.  I think she carried on loudly as a lonely puppy typically does.  I am also guessing that there was a lot of suspicious coming and going from that otherwise unused room.  I am sure we got a stern talking to for being sneaky, but we did get to keep our puppy.

 

I can’t think of what to write now.  These past couple of years have held so much change and it just keeps coming.  I’m not a kid anymore and you’re not a baby.  Happy Birthday, Daniel.  I love you, and boy do I miss you.

Filed Under: family, memoir · · 22 Comments

Ginny

I believe that when you slow down and savor the small things, you don’t have to wish for a different life; you can discover beauty in the life you already have. {Find out more here...}

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  1. Linda says

    August 19, 2012 at 11:27 pm

    My brother and I tried to keep a rabbit under his bed. We lived in a very small house. We got to keep the rabbit and my dad made a built a great house for it, outside.

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  2. steph says

    August 19, 2012 at 7:33 am

    how lucky you are! (I used to ask for a brother or sister for Christmas every year…..never got one!) Happy Birthday Daniel!!!

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  3. lori says

    August 18, 2012 at 11:51 am

    happy birthday to your brother! your such a sweet sister, love sibling love.

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  4. Tara C says

    August 18, 2012 at 10:51 am

    …ok apparently pregnancy causes bad grammar as well 😉

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  5. Tara C says

    August 18, 2012 at 10:50 am

    Love this post- so touching!! When I read it yesterday I totally bawled (in a good way- pregnant women way), then I was too teary to post a comment…ahhh hormones 🙂

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  6. April says

    August 18, 2012 at 5:02 am

    My little sister turns thirty this year as well, I am 39, my how time flies. 🙂 Nice post!

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  7. Victoria @ Mommy Marginalia says

    August 17, 2012 at 7:13 pm

    What a darling birthday tribute!

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  8. Nicole Glow says

    August 17, 2012 at 4:43 pm

    Wonderful story. It made me miss my little sister who just turned 36 and I am turning 39. No longer kids indeed 🙂

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  9. Jenn says

    August 17, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    Happy birthday! 🙂

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  10. Audrey says

    August 17, 2012 at 2:25 pm

    Beatrix looks a lot like your brother!

    Happy Birthday Daniel

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  11. Marj says

    August 17, 2012 at 12:47 pm

    What a sweet tribute!!

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  12. meghann says

    August 17, 2012 at 12:13 pm

    Oh, what a great story. Happy birthday to your brother! xo

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  13. Gris fleur says

    August 17, 2012 at 11:43 am

    So sweet to share a special day with other people in the world ! It’s my birthday too !

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  14. Wendy says

    August 17, 2012 at 11:34 am

    And the next blog post in my reader was this:

    http://anniemurphypaul.com/2012/08/editing-our-memories/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=editing-our-memories

    So I just had to come back and share it! 🙂

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  15. Wendy says

    August 17, 2012 at 11:29 am

    So funny the memories we have from childhood–I’m sure the parents have a completely different perspective! Your kids will treasure reading these stories again when they’re older!

    Happy birthday, Ginny’s brother!

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  16. Meryl says

    August 17, 2012 at 10:54 am

    Such great stories!

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  17. Taryn Kae Wilson @ Wooly Moss Roots says

    August 17, 2012 at 10:51 am

    That was so sweet.

    Happy Birthday Daniel!!

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  18. Diane says

    August 17, 2012 at 10:37 am

    What a sweet story, and what a sweet sister you are, Ginny. 🙂

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  19. heathermama hawkes says

    August 17, 2012 at 10:35 am

    happy birthday to your baby brother. what a great memory. what an adventure. 🙂

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  20. amy@to love says

    August 17, 2012 at 10:19 am

    oh happy birthday to your bro! i turn 30 on monday. crazy.

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  21. Christi says

    August 17, 2012 at 9:00 am

    Too sweet, those little brother memories – my little brother turned 35 this year & I just turned 38 a couple of days ago. And things continue to change. He just became a father to triplets! But he is my partner in shared memories, and I still love him so. (And his name is (Gregory) Daniel, too, and one of his new little ones had that name too).

    Happy Birthday to your Daniel!

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  22. Kim says

    August 17, 2012 at 8:26 am

    I am a similar memory with my little brother, only we found a kitten. We didn’t get to keep her, turns out I was allergic to her 🙁

    Happy birthday to your brother!

    Reply

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